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  Less than a minute lesson-1971 Life to follow. Every life, whether short or long, has one end called death.  Every life has a story; whether to follow the deceased's life depends on who you are and what you wish to become. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD    

  Less than a minute lesson-1970 Ignore and Respect Those who are deaf will put effort into hearing you, and those who are not will pretend as if you were not loud and clear. Ignore those who pretend and respect those who are genuine. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD    

  Less than a minute lesson-1969 Accepting the truth When you and I don't last long, how can our happiness and unhappiness last long?  Nothing is eternal in this life; we need to accept the truth and flow with it. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD  

  Less than a minute lesson-1968 Accomplishments and Unfulfilled dreams Some graves have a story of accomplishment, but many have a story of unfulfilled dreams. Decide what your story should be. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD  

  Less than a minute lesson-1967 Harmony Inside and Serenity Outside Even the most serene place in the world will not satisfy a person whose mind is filled with guilt and regret. Without harmony inside, we cannot appreciate the serenity outside. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD  

  Few seconds   Smiling takes a few seconds; that's the first step towards building a relationship. Taking the initiative takes a few seconds; that's the first step towards building your Leadership skills. Hanging your anger takes a few seconds; that's the first step to being assertive. Saying " No " takes a few seconds to say "No"; that's the first step to stop being impulsive. It takes a few seconds to stop judging; that's the first step towards understanding others. It takes a few seconds to decide whether to forward an unverified message. That's the first step towards stopping rumours. It takes a few seconds to thank others, that's the first step towards demonstrating your gratitude. It takes a few seconds to keep quiet; that's the first to stop losing your words. Forgiving takes a few seconds; that's the first step to moving forward in holding the relationship. It takes a few seconds to seek forgiveness;...

  Less than a minute lesson-1966 Stop arguing with the biased. Stop arguing with biased people; neither emotions nor logic or facts matter to them; their ill-conceived ideology has ceased their ability to understand and change.   Ending the argument is better than listening  to their never-ending biased views. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD        

  Less than a minute lesson-1965 Inner World How you perceive the world determines the peace in your inner world.   Every day we can choose between reading what went right and what went wrong; the news you consume becomes the seeds for your thoughts. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD

  Don't lose yourself.   Don't lose yourself when you lose a relationship; you need to be there to build a new one. Don't lose yourself when you lose your wealth; you must be there to earn it again. Don't lose yourself when you lose your health; you must be there to build it again. Don't lose yourself when you lose an opportunity; you must be there to grab the next one. Don't lose yourself when you lose your rating; you must be there to get a better rating in the future. Don't lose yourself when you are rejected; you must be there to be recognised in the future. Don't lose yourself when you are criticised; you must be there to be appreciated in the future. Don't lose yourself when you are proved wrong; you must be there to prove yourself right in the future. Don't lose yourself when you are not heard; you must be there to be admired by others for your inspiring speeches. Remember, You are not a loser but a resilient waiting ...

  Less than a minute lesson-1964 Courage Vs Cowardice Speaking in front of the person is courage, whereas speaking from behind is cowardice. Let your courage talk and not the coward. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD  

  Less than a minute lesson-1963 Feedback and Assertiveness When you decide to correct a person through feedback, be assertive. Aggressiveness triggers more resistance to feedback, so the objective of giving feedback fails. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD    

  Less than a minute lesson-1962 Others’ Pain When you understand others' pain, you can gain their love without pain. Empathy is a bridge which connects two hearts. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD  

        Less than a minute lesson-1961 Politeness Don't take others' politeness for granted, they might look like a dormant volcano, but once they become active, you cannot stop them. Respect others' politeness and accept their silence. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD  

  The standard of Living Vs the Quality of Living Brands worn are proof of the standard of living, whereas the needy bodies covered are proof of the quality of living. Visiting different types of speciality restaurants proves the standard of living, whereas visiting old-aged homes and orphanages proves the quality of living. Visiting different countries for a vacation proves the standard of living, whereas visiting the villages to serve proves the quality of living. Entertaining oneself is proof of the standard of living, whereas entertaining others is proof of the quality of living. Lavishness is proof of the standard of living, whereas simplicity is proof of the quality of living. Money spent on unwanted luxury is proof of the standard of living, whereas money invested for the future is proof of the quality of living. Pride and vanity are the proof of the standard of living, whereas humbleness and humility are the proof of the quality of living. While you focus on...

  I am Buried under Debris   People search for me in spiritual centres. People search for me in religious places. People search for me in calm places. People keep searching for me without realising I am inside them. It is the people who should generate me from within, but unfortunately, I  am covered by debris called Ego, hate, jealousy, worries and many more negative emotions. I am so deeply buried that they find it challenging to remove that debris and become restless. I am peace which lives within but unfortunately searched outside. Unless that debris rests in peace, human beings can never access me. M.L. Narendra Kumar              

  Less than a minute lesson-1960 Jealousy and Unhappiness Unhappy are those who are jealous of others' happiness; happy are those who make others happy. Happiness begets happiness. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD    

  Less than a minute lesson-1959 Rat Race Those who follow their dream will not run the rat race, and those who run the rat race are building other dreams.  You have a choice to either build your dream or others' dreams. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD  

  Less than a minute lesson-1958 Character Focus on building your character while you are busy building your wealth.  Your wealth can either increase or decrease, but your character will help you to face success without ego and failure without pain. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD  

  Ego   I am ego; I will never help you go places. I am ego; I will never help you relate with people. I am ego; I will never help you seek forgiveness I am ego; I will never help you forgive others. I am ego; I will never help you to admit your mistakes. I am ego; I will never help you to change. I am ego; I will never help you to accept failures. I am ego; I will never help you to accept the reality I am ego; I will never help you to realise who you are I am ego, I will never go if you don't realise I am your villain masked as a friend   To go places, let the Ego go.   M.L. Narendra Kumar

  The Power of Writing We have much experience and knowledge to share; many prefer to share it orally, and only a few choose to write it. During my writing journey, I discovered we gain more by writing it down; we document our experience and improve our reading and writing skills. Whenever I think about penning down my thoughts or experience, I will have a set of words and structure, but once I start writing, I will be surprised to see my thoughts taking up a better shape than what it was. The article you are reading was in my mind before few weeks with few sentences and an objective, but once I started penning it down, it was much better than I thought. The objective of penning this article is to inspire you to start writing, It doesn't matter how big or small it is, but once you pen it down, it will be much better than it was in your mind. Writing falls under various steams, they are as follows: Writing is an Art- like any other art; writing becomes better through pr...

  Less than a minute lesson-1957 Self-Respect Respecting yourself is much more important than expecting respect from others. Self-respect is the gateway to self-development. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD  

  Less than a minute lesson-1956 Embrace Vs Embarrass Some embrace your ideas, whereas others will embarrass you while you share your ideas. Respect those who welcome your thoughts and ignore those who ridicule you. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD

  Less than a minute lesson-1955 Presence and Absences If your presence doesn't make a difference, your absences will not make a big difference. Avoid going to places where you are not respected. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD      

  Less than a minute lesson-1954 Judgement Reserved In the judiciary, some judgements are reserved for preserving justice.  Similarly , it is better to reserve the judgement to maintain the relationship in a relationship. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD