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The Lost Button & The Laundryman’s Lesson: Are We Trading Human Touch for Scale?

  The Lost Button & The Laundryman’s Lesson: Are We Trading Human Touch for Scale?   The shirt came back clean and pressed, smelling fresh. But the missing button was still missing. I knew it was gone when I dropped it off, but a small, almost forgotten part of me hoped. Not for the modern, app-based, reputable laundry service to fix it—they simply did what the ticket said: wash and press. No more, no less.   The moment took me back decades, to the scuffed counter of the local laundry near my childhood home. I’d hand over school uniforms, shirts, and pants. Often, they’d be missing a button, or the hem would be fraying.   When I’d collect them, something magical had happened. Not only were they clean, but they were quietly repaired. A new button stitched tight. A hem neatly restored. Once, I asked the laundryman how he knew. He smiled. “Before washing, I check. If there’s a small mend needed, my wife does it. It saves the customer trouble—and it saves...
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The quiet victory of a good heart

  The quiet victory of a good heart When you help a person with good intentions and later come to know that the other person has misused your help, you might regret it—which is a basic human nature. However, your willingness to help others should not be stifled by one such act. Remember, the number of good-hearted people is diminishing, and you belong to that rare breed. Do not let your good character change because of people who misuse kindness. When you go to bed, go with the peace of knowing you were helpful, harmless, and good-natured, rather than thinking about people who do not deserve a place in your mind or your sleep. M.L.Narendra Kumar          

The Sales Manager and the Withered Plant: A Lesson in Nurturing Over Treating

  The Sales Manager and the Withered Plant: A Lesson in Nurturing Over Treating A young sales manager was passionate about bringing nature indoors. Eager to transform his apartment into a green oasis, he bought a variety of houseplants and dedicated himself to caring for them. He watered them diligently, ensured they had sunlight, and treated them all with equal attention. Yet, after weeks of effort, the results were puzzling. While some plants thrived, bursting with new leaves, others looked dull, dry, or simply refused to grow. Frustrated but determined, he decided to consult an expert—a seasoned horticulturist who owned a local nursery. The expert gladly accepted an invitation to visit the manager's home. One Sunday morning, he carefully inspected each plant, snapping photos and jotting down notes. Over coffee, he began with praise: "Your commitment is impressive. You've treated every plant with unbiased care, and that's a great start." Then, he gently ...

Less than a minute, Lesson-3015 Focus and Relevance

  Less than a minute, Lesson-3015 Focus and Relevance Distraction occurs when your focus is not on your goal, causing you to see everything around you as a potential diversion. In contrast, when you are truly focused, everything you see becomes relevant to achieving your goal. The key is to concentrate on one objective and work persistently toward it. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD      

E.M.I - E.M.I

  E.M.I - E.M.I E.M.I. E.M.I. An easy way to live in a debt trap, Without even trying. E.M.I. E.M.I. Banks call it an Equated Monthly Instalment, But it’s really  Equated Mental Illness . E.M.I. E.M.I. If you find someone who doesn’t love his job, Give him a home loan, and he’ll be trapped in mental illness. For the next few decades, he will love his job forever. E.M.I. E.M.I. If you find someone who doesn’t like his manager, Give him a personal loan, and he’ll be trapped in mental illness. For the next few years, he’ll like his manager until he closes that loan. E.M.I. E.M.I. If you find someone who doesn’t love his company, Give him a car loan, and he’ll be trapped in mental illness. For the next few years, he’ll be romancing his company until his car becomes old. E.M.I. E.M.I. If you find someone who isn’t interested in shopping, Convert his purchase into an E.M.I. He’ll stick to his job for a few more months, Just to clear that E.M.I. E.M.I. ...

Less than a minute, Lesson-3014 Time Doesn’t Fly

  Less than a minute, Lesson-3014 Time Doesn’t Fly Time doesn't fly just because you keep glancing at your watch. If you truly want time to speed up, you must become faster than time itself. Lose yourself in a productive task—something so absorbing that you forget to check the hour. When you are fully engaged, you won't have time to see the time; you'll only realise it has flown by when you finally look up. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD      

Blaming vs. Solving: The Fork in the Road

  Blaming vs. Solving: The Fork in the Road When we choose blame, we buy ourselves a temporary escape. We feel the momentary relief of declaring, "This isn’t my fault. There's nothing I can do." But that relief is an illusion, and its cost is steep. In placing blame, we don't just identify a problem—we create new ones: hostility, confrontation, and resentment. What begins as a pointed finger often ends as a closed fist, leaving nothing in its wake but the bitter residue of enmity. Now, let’s walk the other path. Imagine, instead, that we meet the same difficult moment not with accusation, but with a single, solution-oriented question: "How can we fix this?" This simple shift changes everything. We no longer shy away from responsibility; we embrace a shared responsibility for the outcome. Our role transforms from a judge seeking a culprit to a partner seeking a path forward. When your mind is set on figuring out a solution with the other person, a pow...