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Guess who I am-5? I have the ability to change a nation I have the ability to change a person's life I can turn a company from nothing into a giant I am the reason for start ups People scratch the head in the Conference  room to connect with me. Companies hire an expert to buy me. Sometimes I just come to people when they take a shower. Sometimes I disturb the people in the sleep. I am unbiased, I don't see the difference between rich and poor. When things workout they Appreciate me when it fails they curse me. As an object I am compared with a bulb. As a nature I am compared  with a flowing river. Sometimes they compare me with a ocean. Let people call me by any names I am just a spark good enough to light the whole world. I am generated from an organ which weighs less than 2 Kgs. Do you have an idea of who I am? You got it, I am idea..  The output of thinking  The output of learning  The output of team work  The o...

Life Lessons from Sand Sand is enjoyed by the kids in the beach similarly let  people enjoy your company because of your nature and action. Sand can take shapes of various containers when it is mixed in correct proportion  similarly  You can also mold and change with right attitude. Sand can be blown by the wind, but still it finds place to stay  Let winds called difficulties blow you, but still let your determination find a place for you. Sand in the right hands can be an art piece Similarly f ind yourself in the company of right people who can carve you. Sand can be used as a bunker to protect the protector similarly  You can also be a protector in any role you play. Sand has many industrial applications  Likewise every human being is capable of accomplishing in many areas of life. Sand is used in building your house similarly  You can...

Guess who I am-4 I am formless but  I can form a nation. I am shapeless but I can shape a person. You can see me in a person who is striving as well as in a person who is soaring. You can see me in a Teacher as well as a student. You can see me in a writer as well as reader. I can be the reason for your motivation as well as your determination. I can be the reason for your change as well as your growth. I was in the history I will be the reason for  the history. I have been a close friend of inventors as well as creators. I can take you places, I can make others go places because of your passion. You can feel me when you see others in action. I am everywhere, inside you too. People give credit to me, when they achieve. I am inside everyone, I am Inspiration. Be inspired, to inspire. Written By: M.L.Narendra Kumar⁠⁠⁠⁠

Existing Vs. Living Existing is for self, Living is for others. Existing is aspiring for standard of living, Living is aspiring for quality of living. Existing is yet another day, Living is "what a wonderful day" Existing is feeling  meaningless, Living is  feeling meaningful. Existing is turning the calendar, Living is filling the calendar with events. Existing is dying everyday, Living is thanking everyday. Existing is uninspiring, Living is Inspiring. Existing is being with people, Living is relating with people. Existing is a sense of struggle, Living is a sense of freedom. Every life is an output of love, feel the love in you, you will live, not Exist. Written By: M.L. Narendra Kumar⁠⁠⁠⁠

The Board Room Blame Game On a financial year beginning a board room witnessed a following blame game which ended on a sorry note.Below is the discussion. Goal said to vision " since you were not clear I couldn't play my role" Strategy said because of you guys, I couldn't think. Planning said " You guys  goof up in the top and we stand in the middle of the road as well get sandwiched from both top and the bottom. Execution said, Since you guys go aimless we go clueless. Finally our appraisal goes for a task and we are branded us demotivated bunch of  chickens who are referred to attend a motivation programs on a weekend. A building collapses when the foundation is weak whereas an organization collapses when the top management lacks a vision. Am I writing this to prove an organization wrong, if you think so, you got me wrong. We are like an organization,  our life Needs to be envisioned with a broader vision built with a clear goal sup...

Watch your watch I saw my boss wearing an expensive branded watch. I said " your watch is too good" He said " It's a  gift from my wife for my 10th wedding anniversary." I said " she has woderful taste" My boss smiled and said thank you After sometime I was reflecting upon his delayed meetings and reasons he gives for his wife for going late. All I understood is people value brands , but not other people's time. Written by : M.L.Narendra Kumar

Time- Investment Vs. Spending If you use your time for worrying it is spending, if you use your time for improving it is an investment. If you use your time for gossip it is spending, if you use your time for talking good about others it is an investment. If you use your time for finding a reason, when things goes wrong it is spending, if you use it for setting it right, it is an investment. If you use your time for finding faults with others it is spending, if you use it for correcting others it is an investment. If you use your time for gaining attention it is spending, if you use your time for gaining respect it is an investment. If you use your time for changing others it is  spending, if you use your time for changing yourself it is an investment. If you use your for time revenge it is spending, if you use your time for forgiving it is an investment. If you use your time for not accepting your mistake it is spending, if you it for correcting yourself it is a...

Don't Harm yourself Don't harm yourself with your negative thoughts about yourself. Don't harm yourself with others opinion about yourself. Don't harm yourself with the thoughts of the past. Don't harm yourself with the fear of, what will happen in the future. Don't harm yourself with the thoughts of what is not under your control. Don't harm yourself by comparing yourself with others. Don't harm yourself by being what you don't want to be. Don't harm yourself with a feeling of missing a person, you have a long way to go. Don't harm yourself with a feeling of not being loved, when you don't know how many them are loving you. Remember, When you mentally harm yourself, you are physically harming yourself without knowing you are doing it. Written by: M.L. Narendra Kumar⁠⁠⁠⁠

Redefining Mistakes If a scientist commits a mistake it is called research. If a student commits a mistake it is called Learning. If a sportsman commits a mistake it is called trying. If an artist commits a mistake it is called Creativity. If a businessman commits a mistake it is called risk taking. We can take a stake in every mistake we make. Written by: M.L.Narendra Kumar

Why the hell should you compare? When you compare yourself with others you either feel inferior or superior. Feeling inferior reduces your self-esteem; Feeling superior increases your ego. When you compare yourself with others you either feel rich or poor. Feeling rich makes you arrogant, feeling poor make you worthless. When you compare yourself with others you either feel happy or unhappy Happiness is not the destination; peace is. When you compare yourself with others you either feel lucky or unlucky Luck is not in your hands, why should you depend on it. When you compare yourself with others you either feel Intelligent or stupid Intelligence is understanding, life is a continuous learning process, Stupidity does not understand the above When we all know we are unique in our own way, why should we fall prey to either superiority complex or inferiority complex. Realize the uniqueness in you and accept the uniqueness in others. Written by: M.L.Narendra K...

Best Investments in life • Smile is an investment which helps you to earn back a smile • Listening is an investment which helps you to earn back a relationship • Forgiveness is an investment which helps you to earn back peace of mind • Reading is an investment which helps you to earn back some knowledge • Challenge is an investment which helps you to earn back some competency • Positive thinking is an investment which helps you to earn back some hope in life • Eating well is an investment which helps you to earn back a good digestive system • Sleeping well is an investment which helps you to earn back some energy for the next day • Exercise is an investment which helps you to earn back some physical fitness • Talking to an old friend is an investment which helps you to earn back some joy • Being with your family is an investment which helps you to earn back some happiness • Taking feedback is an investment which helps you to earn back some improve...

Choose Between Choose between being happy to making others happy. Choose between being successful to creating success for others. Choose between being peaceful to creating peace for others. Choose between being understood to understanding others. Choose between taking to giving Choose between being listened to being a Listener. Choose between being forgiven to forgive others. Choose between being loved to love others. Choose between being appreciated to Appreciate others. Your choice determines your life as well as others life. The choice is yours. Written By:M.L.Narendra kumar⁠⁠⁠⁠

Guess who I am-Part-3 I can make or break a relationship I can make you confident, when somebody has it on you I can make the other person confident, when you have it on them I grow in every interaction you have with the other person I grow where there is understanding and empathy Every commitment you honor, I become a bridge in a relationship Few commitments you dishonor, I disappear It takes time to build me, but seconds to break me When you lie or others lie, I die When you act on gossip, you can see me eroding in you Sometimes people compare me with a Glass Trust me, you would guessed who I am. People call me Trust. Written by M.L.Narendra Kumar⁠⁠⁠⁠

Where there is- Part-2 Where there is Focus, there is Results. Where there is Truth, there is Bravery. Where there is Passion, there is  Performance. Where there is Patience, there is Growth. Where there is Determination, there is Achievement. Where there is Learning, there is Wisdom. Where there is Conviction, there is Persuasion. Where there is Motivation, there is a Inspiration. Written By: M.L.Narendra Kumar⁠⁠⁠⁠

Where there is- Part-1 Where there is Care, there is Love. Where there is Understanding, there is Relationship. Where there is Punctuality, there is Value for time. Where there is Responsibility, there is Maturity. Where there is Initiative, there is Leadership . Where there is Humor, there is Joy. Where there is Contentedness, there is peace. Where there is Acceptance, there is a Forgiveness. Written By: M.L.Narendra Kumar⁠⁠⁠⁠

Take a journey into your past- Version-2             Rediscover your Love If you want to understand how Determined you are, take a journey into your past when you were bent upon marrying the person whom you loved. If you want to understand how Kind you are, take a journey into your past when you spoke kind words every time you met your  beloved. If you want to understand how Romantic you are, take a journey into your past when you wrote your first love message or a long love letter. If you want to understand your ability to realize your Mistake, take a journey into your past when you said sorry continuously over the phone to your beloved. If you want to understand your ability to Correct yourselves, take a journey into your past when you took every word of your beloved seriously and went to an extent of changing your style or reducing your anger. If you want to understand your ability to Maintain Relationship, take a journey into ...

Life Lessons from class room boards If you pay attention to what is worked out on a Black board, you can avoid dark times in your life. If you pay attention to what is worked out on a Green board, you will have some evergreen memories in your life. If you pay attention to what is worked out on  a White board, you can  have peaceful moments in life. If you pay attention to what is worked out on Glass board you can have many cheerful moments in life. Learning does not guarantee problem free life but it will help you to face problems in your life. Pay attention to avoid future tension Written by: M.L.Narendra Kumar

Take a journey into your past- Version-1 If you want to understand how Determined you are, take a journey into your past when you bounced back from your failures. If you want to understand how Kind you are, take a journey into your past when you were appreciated for your good deeds. If you want to understand how Courageous you are, take a journey into your past when you won for your rights. If you want to understand your ability realise your Mistake , take a journey into your past when you  said sorry to your dear ones.     If you want to understand your ability to Correct yourselves, take a journey into your past when you  took feedback constructively. If you want to understand your ability to Maintain Relationship , take a journey into your past when you had forgiven somebody. If you want to understand your Patience Levels, take a journey into your past when you were waiting for someone for a long time. If you want to unders...

Leadership Lessons from Magnet         A magnet is a material or object that produces a magnetic field. This magnetic field is invisible  but is responsible for the most notable property of a magnet. Leadership is an act or a behavior that produces leadership qualities in others. These leadership qualities are invisible but are responsible for the most notable quality of being a leader                                                                                                           A permanent magnet is an object made from a material  that is magnetized and creates its own persistent magnetic  field. Materials that can be magnetized, whi...

Aging Whisky and Aging Parents    Jack : Danny, Nice meeting you after a long time.   Danny : Jack, Nice meeting you too.    Jack : how is your Sunday going?  Danny : Just came to see my parents in the old age home and I to need pick up a 33 years old whisky from my brother who has recently been to UK.   Jack : Why do they stay in the old age home?  Danny: They are old and I’m not able to adjust with them.   Jack : Danny, you prefer an aging whisky but not your aging parents, grey hair is showing up on your head and your face is becoming saggy. Remember your son is watching the whisky as well as you. Written by: M.L.Narendra Kumar

Q&A with a Monk-4-Cheated & Forgiveness D - Disciple M - Monk D :- I am cheated, it hurts me. M: - Never tell you are cheated, few will sympathize, few will wait for their chance, rest will just hear your story. D : -How to come out of it? M :- let me ask you a question, what do you gain by thinking about it. D : -Nothing M : Let me ask you one more question, what will you gain by coming out of it D : -I can focus on my work, I can talk to people normally, I can progress and keep going. M :- Most of the time answers are within. When you connect with yourself, you can connect with reality. D :-I feel very bad when I come across that person? M :- To feel or to Forgive is your choice. You need to decide. D :How can I forgive a person who has cheated me? M :- Don't ask "how" in such situations, ask "why" you should forgive? D :- Why should I forgive? M :- If I ask you the same question, what will be your answer? D :- So tha...

Q&A with a Monk-3- Earning Money D- Disciple M- Monk D: Is earning money an Art? M: No. If it is an art, you will do at your own convenience. D: Is earning money a Science? M:  No. if it is a science, you will start experimenting with your money. D: is it a Sin? M:  No. if earning money is a Sin, then life itself is a sin. D:  Is it a Tactics? M: No. if it is a tactics, then you will start cheating. D: Is it Luck? M:  No. if it is luck, you will never work towards making money, and you will wait for luck D: Is it a duty? M:  You are partly right. But it is one part of your duty D: What is meant by earning money? M: This should have been your first question. Instead of assuming, start asking. D: Sorry. Now can you tell me the answer? M: It is a compensation for your skills/Knowledge/investment and sometime your patience. In a nutshell, living only to earn money is greed and earning money to...