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Q&A with a Monk-4-Cheated & Forgiveness

D- Disciple M- Monk

D:- I am cheated, it hurts me.

M:- Never tell you are cheated, few will sympathize, few will wait for their chance, rest will just hear your story.

D: -How to come out of it?

M:- let me ask you a question, what do you gain by thinking about it.

D: -Nothing

M: Let me ask you one more question, what will you gain by coming out of it

D: -I can focus on my work, I can talk to people normally, I can progress and keep going.

M:- Most of the time answers are within. When you connect with yourself, you can connect with reality.

D:-I feel very bad when I come across that person?

M:- To feel or to Forgive is your choice. You need to decide.

D:How can I forgive a person who has cheated me?

M:- Don't ask "how" in such situations, ask "why" you should forgive?

D:- Why should I forgive?

M:- If I ask you the same question, what will be your answer?

D:- So that you can forget, you will not feel low, you will not have an attitude of revenge and you can be peaceful inside.

M: -You have answered your own question. A peaceful person is person who is free from guilt, anger, frustration etc.

Remember  Where there is vengeance there is fear, where there is forgiveness there is peace both resides within

Written by: M.L.Narendra Kumar⁠⁠⁠⁠

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