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Q& A with a monk-17- Handling People-2

M-Monk
D- Disciple

D- I don't know who is right and who is wrong, how can I find it out?

M- Imagine if you get a coin which has the same symbol on both the sides, will it be a legal tender.

D- No

M- Do you think you can conclude who is right or wrong by just listening to just one person.

D- No

M- Why?

D- Each person will have their own views

M- Do you have your own views?

D- Yes, I do

M- Do people around you accept your views every time?

D- No, they don't

M- Do you expect people to accept your views every time?

D- No, I don't

M- Why?

D- I think, they have a choice and they can decide what to accept and what not to.

M- Do you have a choice to accept others views?

D- , yes, I do

M- Many of you don't realise, the choice is your key, the choice is your remote, the choice is you. Use your judgement to exercise your choice

D- Thank you. Now I understood, whether I should give my ears or not. 

M- I do have a choice

Written by: M.L.Narendra Kumar

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