What we Reinforce Matters The more we talk bad about others, the more we reinforce the badness about them. It is not their badness that results in a strained relationship, it is our reinforcement about them. We do have a choice to reinforce their goodness, but our ego doesn't permit, at this juncture we need to ask ourselves whom are we feeding inside us, is it our ego or humility? Let the ego in us starve and Humility in us flourish to see the goodness in others. Don't spend your time on talking bad about others, instead invest your time in talking good about others, remember investment do fetch us returns. Let's reinforce what is right, so that we can live with memories and leave in peace M.L. Narendra Kumar