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Life Lesson from Upma




On a Sunday morning husband wakes up after a long nap and hits the dinning table for a breakfast, to his surprise he sees Upma on the table and shouts " Honey what the hell is this" Wife shouts from the kitchen " Manage it". 

After finishing his breakfast he goes out to meet his friends and returns around 1 P.M, he approaches the Kitchen searching his wife and sees her arranging dishes for the lunch. He goes closer and opens the lid and tells" wow it is mouth watering" they both walk towards the dinning table and start helping each other in serving the food. 

Wife " How is the food? 
Husband" Too good , it is awesome"

Wife " I wanted to surprise you with a new recipe, so I was engrossed in this work in the morning, I am sorry that I couldn't serve your favourite Sunday breakfast.

Husband lifted his head and looked at her for a while and walked towards her and said " Sometimes it is good to eat Upma. and said Honey I love you for making Upma and admire your passion for exploring a new dish"

Wife smiles and ask " can I serve you some more" Husband it is "fulfilling" I mean your care.

There are billions of women in this planet who try exploring something new in the  kitchen to break their monotony to surprise us but if doesn't surprise us it is OK, but let's be instrumental in helping them come out of their monotony.

Upma should not irritate us, the intention of making the Upma should be understood. 

Similarly in life certain actions or behaviours should not irritate us, we should think and act before we react.

Written by

M.L. Narendra Kumar⁠⁠⁠⁠

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