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                            Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1177 Influencing Vs Manipulation A true Leader uses his oratory skills to influence people for betterment of their Life, whereas a poor leader uses his oratory skills to manipulate people to blindly support him and use it for personal betterment. While listening to political speeches be rational, not biased, that is the way to understand the difference between influencing skills and manipulation. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in        

            Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1176 Power and Empowerment If the power is used to make the people powerful it is an indication that the right person is empowered, if the power makes the other person feel powerless, it is an indication that the wrong person is empowered Promote to Empower, not to boss M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1175 Power and Designation Since there is power in the designation, it might demand respect, but once the power goes, respect fades. Whereas with fine humane qualities, respect is eternal You are human first, designation next M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1174 Relate Better When you Listen to the meaning behind the words and pay attention to the emotions, you can understand and relate better Relationship strengths when we pay attention to the unspoken words M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in    

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1173 Define how much you want If you do not define the quantity of the wealth you want to possess, you can never define the means to achieve the same A well-defined life is means to achieve a balanced life M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in

  Business Lesson from a Milk Vendor   I was taking my morning walk on the main roads of Banashankari in Bengaluru, I noticed two Milk Vendors who were getting prepared to start their early morning milk sale. The first Vendor was unloading the milk from the van and within few meters the other vendor was doing the same. Once I completed my first, when I was returning for my second stretch, I saw the second vendor was arranging some Bread Packets, Cheese, and coconuts in his Kiosk, I just crossed his outlet after seeing those additional products and found something interesting in his line of products. After few minutes when I crossed the first vendor, I saw him waiting for the customers to buy his products.   I just took a coffee break in a restaurant which was aromatic and inviting, while I was having my coffee, I was comparing both the vendors approach and decided to speak to the second vendor, I just started walking and approached the second vendor by asking the ...

  Visibility in Corporate world Hard work and sincerity pay, but Visibility rewards. There are many employees who prove their willingness by working hard, but sometimes they fail to develop the ability to increase their visibility. Here is a story to reflect the importance of creating visibility in your workplace. Since the subject teacher was on a leave, the class teacher decided to engage the class with an open quiz competition and started asking what is the currency of Japan? Ravi murmured the currency is called Yen in the ears of Vishal, in the meantime Pranav from the front bench stood and gave the answer. The class teacher appreciated Pranav and instructed the class to give a big round of applause for Pranav. For some of us this can be a familiar incident in our own life, yes indeed people like Pranav would have gone on a nostalgic journey, but people like Ravi would have felt the pain of not being vocal. There are many Ravis who are only known to Vishals, but o...

  One end to the Other end Mobiles are getting charged at one end, Positivity is getting discharged at the other end Cards are getting swiped at one end, debts are getting accumulated at the other end Eateries are getting filled at one end, hospitals are running full at the other end M odern bikes are zooming at one end, Ambulance services are rushing at the other end Literacy is increasing at one end, online ignorance is soaring at the other end Double income groups are increasing at one end, divorces are in the queue at the other end Online businesses have increased many folds at one end, offline businesses are closing at the other end Roads are becoming broader at one end, impatience is mounting at the other end Spiritual education is increasing at one end, depression is multiplying at the other end. The challenge is balancing between both the ends, and the solution is within us   M.L. Narendra Kumar    

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1172 Caution and Learning Success comes with a caution; failure comes with a learning. If we do not take the caution seriously, we need to spend lot of time in unlearning, relearning, and learning M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1171 Perceived Worries         You are not as fat as what you perceive about you, the people out there are not as thinner than what you think.                   Instead of focusing on your waist and others waist, focus on your happiness, the world has enough space for you and me M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in

  Losing Happiness There was a middle-aged man who met an Old Monk and said “I am losing my happiness, what should I do regain it back” Guruji asked “Did your friends/Relatives/Neighbour/Colleagues buy anything new? The middle-aged man thought for a while and said “My neighbour bought a new high-end, car” Guruji “Did you ever think, when you will buy such a car?” The middle-aged man said “No I didn’t think about, but my family members were comparing the high-end car with our car while we were traveling together” Guruji “Seed for unhappiness is sown when you start comparing, so came the unhappiness in you” Middle-aged man asked, “How do we avoid such comparison?” Guruji said “Respect other people’s victory and value what you possess” Happiness is not about things it is about how we perceive the happenings around us M.L. Narendra Kumar      

  United for a Cause We speak different languages, but let our hearts beat for one Nation We eat different kinds of food, but let our hunger for Nation's growth remains the same We follow different traditions, but let our affinity towards our Motherland be intact We wear different kinds of dresses, but let our uniformity of thought unite us We live in different states, but let our life be for our one Nation We have different state songs, but let us stand for one National Anthem We are Indians Let us respect the diversity, which is the hallmark of our unity Our Constitution united us for a cause & let us stay united for the same   Happy Republic Day   M.L. Narendra Kumar  

  Deep Dive-Inspired from Zen A dog was thirsty, and it went in search of water, after few minutes dog found a pond and stopped for a while to quench the thirst. When the dog bend to have some water, seeing its own reflection it stopped, the dog turned back wondering what to do & after few minutes it went near the pond and saw the reflection and started barking, the dog was horrified to see the barking reflection and ran away from the pond. The dog was dying out of thirst and ran back to encounter the dog by jumping inside the pond, after some time the dog quenched its thirst and found there was no dog inside the pond. Does this story have a relationship in our life? Yes, it does.  Sometimes we are afraid to counter the person inside us. We are afraid to question our ideologies, question our decisions and actions. We have created an image about us, which we do not want to change, such an act neither helps to play our role effectively nor face the future with courage. ...

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1170 Delete While you delete the unwanted files from your devices, delete the unwanted memories of the past to receive the new strengths from the future It is better to have a cleansed mind than to have a clogged mind M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1169 Idea A sown seed does not become a tree, it needs to be nurtured, similarly an idea does not become a reality, it needs to be acted upon An Idea in the mind is a dream, an idea in action is a reality.  Act on the idea M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1168  The spirit of Motivation A person who carries the torch with him is never worried about the darkness outside, similarly a person who is self-motivated does not worry about the situation that is prevailing in the external world.   It is better to move with the torch in the hand than to stay in the dark. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in              

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1167 Guilt or Impenitent We have a choice to either make a person feel guilty or Impenitent, by making the person feel guilty we are bringing down the person’s confidence whereas when we make them impenitent, we make them important Let us develop confident person around us than people who live with guilt M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1166 Retention-3-Positivity To retain the Peace, we need to maintain Positivity Peace prevails where postivity lives Trust strengthens when understanding increases M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in      

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1165 Retention -2-Relationship To retain the relationship, we need to maintain the trust Trust strengthens when understanding increases M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in        

  One Sentence-Stories        I.         It was a huge sixer, and the team won the series, after couple of hours a beggar came with a band-aid on the head.    II.         A young boy was happily getting drenched in heavy rains and an old man on the road was managing to cover himself with a small size raincoat.     III.         When the vegetable vendor thrashed her unsold vegetables, she went to sleep with a glass of water.      IV.         When a politician was appreciating his party workers about their arrangements, the local pawn broker was weighing the gold that was Pledged.      V.         A car with a political flag that jumped the signal was witnessed by a school going kid, who told her father to follow the ca...