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Life is a bundle of choices; the quality of living depends upon our ability to choose how we respond to the situation

·         We can either choose to blame or act

·         We can either choose to argue or remain silent

·         We can either give up or keep trying

·         We can either choose to suffer or to recover

·         We can either choose to resist or to change

·         We can either choose to be jealous or to appreciate

·         We can either choose to criticize or to correct

·         We can either choose to react or to respond.




When we start blaming we start proving our inability

When we stop blaming, we start living



When we argue we start losing the strength within

When we maintain silence, we develop our inner strength



When we give up we miss the opportunity ahead

When we keep trying, we keep learning



When we suffer we don’t open the gift in the hand called-*Present*

When we start recovering, we keep gaining



When we resist a change, we resist development

When we start changing we keep developing



When we are jealous, we develop resentment

When we start appreciating we develop relationship



When we start criticizing, we stop seeing what is right with others

When we start correcting we attract others to see what is right in us



When we react, we don’t act the way we should

When we respond we think and act the way we should



Choice is yours, you own your thought



M.L.Narendra Kumar


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