Anger- An Asset or a Liability

Anger- An Asset or a Liability

People will understand the reason behind your anger, but will not accept the tone in which it was communicated. Anger is an emotion, it cannot be controlled every time, but it can be expressed in a better way.

All the non-violent revolutionaries were angry, but they choose the right words to express their anger.

Anger is a liability when it is expressed poorly & the same anger is an asset when it is blended with the right words.

Uncontrolled anger is an arrogance born out of ignorance, and controlled anger is an output of knowledge. Remember, when anger is blended with the right words, it becomes wisdom in action.

Arrogance damages the holder and the beholder, whereas controlled anger damages the holder, but well-expressed anger yields the desired result.

To work on your tone, you need to take some time before you express your anger. Those few minutes will help you to think better and construct the right words. Examine your past anger and evaluate yourself, before you want to vent your anger.

Anger can be your friend or your enemy; it depends upon how you treat it.

M.L.Narendra Kumar

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