Do not be busy at the Cost of the Relationship-Part-1

 

Do not be busy at the Cost of the Relationship-Part-1

An old Monk made a statement telling that "I come across many people saying that, they don't have time for being in touch with people around them" and he asked "how many of you feel the same?"

Many hands raised and one person from the audience said

Life is becoming difficult and hence we do not have time to be in touch with people

The Old Monk asked, "Is there any other reasons?"

One more person from the crowd said

I think we should understand the situation and should not expect people to be in touch

The Old Monk was nodding his head and one person said

There is no point in being in touch, we should focus on our life

The Old Monk asked "Would anybody like to share your views" the audience were quiet for a while.

The Old Monk said:  "Let me respond to your questions and statements" The Monk took the piece of paper in which he noted down the audience response and started reading the first response

Life is becoming difficult and hence we don't have time to be in touch with people

The Old Monk said " I will divide this response into two parts:

1. Life is becoming difficult
2. We do not have Time

The old Monk with a smile said Since we are not in touch with others our life is becoming difficult

Since we are not understanding other persons difficulties, hence we feel we are facing more difficulties in life.

We are defeating the basic human terminology "Man is a Social Animal" we are made out of emotions and we do have a need to relate with people, which not only helps us to release our stress, it also helps to learn life from others experience & wisdom"

The Old Monk concluded the response for the first part by stating that

Inside each one of us there is an expectation that why do not he/she call me", we live with expectations instead of fulfilling other persons expectations.

My humble suggestion for the day is: Take the man made Mobile and call those human made friends and inquire about their wellness

You might be miles away, but one call can bring the hearts closer & increases the Smiles in many faces

Monked by M.L. Narendra Kumar