Do not be busy at the cost of Relationship- Part-3

Do not be busy at the cost of Relationship- Part-3

The Old Monk referred to the piece of paper and said the third response was we should understand the situation and should not expect people to be in touch

Old Monk said: I appreciate your understanding of the situation and said our expectations need not be other person’s expectations. You might not expect others to be in touch with you, but others might expect you to be in touch with them.

It is better to call a person and wish him/her rather than live with an assumption. It is better to clarify the assumption than to decide based on the assumption.

Remember, without filling the water tank, we cannot expect the water to flow in our Taps.

Relationship is liking filling the water tank, keep filling it with positive emotions so that you can quench your relationship thirst.

An unconditional relationship is a hidden strength which gives you the confidence of being with right people, though you might not require it, but there are lot of people who want a shoulder to cry and ears to listen. If you can be that kind of a person, you have played a vital role in stopping someone from loneliness and falling into depression.

Make a list of people who will be happy when they listen to your voice and just greet them in this challenging times, this might bring a smile in their face and a chance to reduce their burden from their heart

When you relate with people, you relate with yourself better

Monked by: M.L. Narendra Kumar

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