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  Solitary Growth If I am lonely, it doesn’t mean I dislike people around me It means I love myself enough To enjoy my own company when I am alone If I am lonely, it doesn’t mean I am by myself It means I am with my memories Cherishing the moments I shared with others If I am lonely, it doesn’t mean I am anxious It means I am looking within To set things right in my life If I am lonely, it doesn’t mean I am pulling away It means I am thinking How to draw closer without overstepping If I am lonely, it doesn’t mean I am upset with others It means I am pausing To handle my anger without causing harm If I am lonely, it doesn’t mean I have failed It means I am turning my failures Into stepping stones for success If I am lonely, it doesn’t mean I am proud It means I am taming my ego To stay humble all my life If I am lonely, it doesn’t mean I am defeated It means I am making peace with myself To begin anew If I am lonely, it doesn’t mean I long for solit...

  After a Long Time   Waiting to meet her, meet her After a long, long time Waiting to see her, see her After a long, long time So excited to see her, see her After a long, long time Longing to hold her hand, hold her hand After a long, long time Yearning to hear her voice, hear her voice After a long, long time Dying to speak with her, speak with her After a long, long time Craving to hold her close, hold her close After a long, long time Dreaming to kiss her, kiss her After a long, long time Counting days to be with her Counting hours to be with her Counting minutes to be with her Counting seconds to be with her Counting every heartbeat meant for her Restlessness has taken over me Only her presence can set me free Though our hearts are closer than before This distance aches — it’s hard to ignore Her presence is the cure, her words the balm I wait for the waiting to end, and for the calm For happiness to bloom, at last, in my arms. M....

  I am Happy I am happy I am happy Not because of a hefty bank balance, But because I am balanced within. I am happy I am happy Not because of what I receive, But because of what I give. I am happy I am happy Not because of my success, But because of how I face my failures. I am happy I am happy Not because of my fame, But because of what I brought to the table. I am happy I am happy Not because of the profits I made, But because of the profits I shared. I am happy I am happy Not because of the fun I had, But because of the fun I shared. I am happy I am happy Not because of the wealth I created, But because of the means by which I created. I am happy I am happy Not because of what I have, But because of what I give. I am happy I am happy Not because of my mood, But because of my eternal state of mind. Let's be happy Let's be happy Not because of others' unhappiness, But because we create happiness for others. We don't ...

  The Gatekeeper within When you open the door to pessimism, hope finds its way out. When you open the door to hatred, love finds its way out. When you open the door to greed, peace finds its way out. When you open the door to jealousy, relationships find their way out. When you open the door to enmity, friendship finds its way out. When you open the door to toxic people, kind-hearted people find their way out. When you open the door to ego, humility finds its way out. When you open the door to laziness, activeness finds its way out. When you open the door to worries, happiness finds its way out. The door is the mind. We alone hold the key to open and close it. Our attitude is the gatekeeper that decides who—or what—may enter. M.L.Narendra Kumar      

  Why Easy Comes at a Cost When someone makes your life easy, without realising it, they are also making you lazy. What comes easily sometimes comes with a cost—whether direct or indirect. But remember, when something is made easy, there is always something we lose in return. For example, it is convenient to order food through an app, but that meal comes with an extra cost, and in the long run, it adds extra fat around your waist. There are also instances where easy success does not last. The world has seen businesses that experienced early success but eventually shut down. In the 1990s and early 2000s, Mr. Kabir Mulchandani built the Akai brand in India by offering huge discounts. While it was attractive and brought him early success, his shortcut did not last. He became entangled in many legal cases and was a prominent news figure in 2000—but later, for all the wrong reasons. Success without ethics is like a bright light in the sky—it may seem attractive, but it can also be...

  Do You Really Listen to Feedback—or Just Tune It Out? Most of us are picky about whose advice we take. We lean in when trusted friends or family speak, but brush off everyone else—because, let’s face it, we assume they don’t “get” us. It feels safer that way. But in that safe space, we may be missing something far more valuable than comfort. When we shut out feedback, we also shut the door on: ·        A mirror to see how others truly experience us ·        Hidden strengths we underestimate ·        Blind spots we don’t even know we have ·        Clarity on what’s worth changing ·        A roadmap to the benefits that change can bring ·        And, perhaps most importantly—the unvarnished truth about who we are Let’s be honest: feedback can sting. It can feel like criticism wrapped in ...

  The Ink of Peace: From Global Politics to Inner Harmony When we hear the word treaty , our minds often drift to grand halls filled with diplomats, fountain pens, and stacks of parchment. We picture nations shaking hands over documents that promise to curb missiles, open trade routes, or protect the oceans. A treaty, in theory, is a sacred contract—a mutual promise where signatories agree to act in good faith, bringing the words on the page to life. But theory and reality don’t always align. Sometimes, a treaty is little more than a beautiful piece of paper. The ink dries, but the bombs keep falling; the signature is fresh, but the territorial lines remain blurred. Take the United Nations Convention on the Law of the Sea (UNCLOS) and the South China Sea Arbitration. Despite a clear legal framework designed to settle maritime disputes, the waters remain troubled, and the discord between China and the Philippines continues to ripple outward. The treaty exists, but its spirit rem...

  The Millionaire Mindset: Why Wealth Isn't Stored in Your Bank Account There are two kinds of people in this world. The first group may not have a fortune in the bank, but they possess an inner richness that money can't buy. The second group may have overflowing bank accounts, yet they are spiritually and emotionally impoverished. What truly separates these two groups isn't their net worth—it's their attitude . The poor in mind live in a state of quiet desperation. Their lives are driven by undefined needs, a constant fear of loss, and a frantic chase for money without any real purpose. They accumulate wealth like a shield against the world, but gratitude is rarely found in their vocabulary. In contrast, the rich-in-mind move through life with quiet courage. They have clarity about what they truly need, the resilience to bounce back from failure, and a deep sense of purpose that guides their decisions. Above all, they practice gratitude—not as an afterthought, ...

  The Hidden Link: Why You Can’t Have One Without the Other Every person, irrespective of their profession—whether an employee or an employer—aspires to be productive at work while also desiring personal well-being. Before we understand how to improve both our productivity and personal well-being, let us first define these terms. What is Productivity? Productivity is getting the most important work done efficiently, without wasting time or resources. It focuses on valuable outcomes, not just staying busy or working long hours. True productivity means achieving better results while using less effort and energy. What is Personal Well-being? Personal well-being is the state of feeling healthy, happy, and balanced in your physical, mental, and social life. It means having the energy and resilience to handle daily challenges and recover from setbacks. Simply put, it is about thriving, not just surviving. However, the time and effort devoted to productivity often exceed those d...

  The Art of Leading Life on Your Own Terms Most of us cherish the idea of living life on our own terms. Deep down, we believe that no one else has the right to dictate how we should live—just as we have no right to impose our blueprint on others. On the surface, this philosophy radiates freedom. And it does, in many ways. It grants us the autonomy to make our own choices, shields us from the constant noise of unsolicited opinions, and instils a powerful sense of self-direction. But like any double-edged sword, this freedom comes with a shadow side. In our pursuit of self-rule, we can easily fall into traps. We may start chasing the path of least resistance, mistaking convenience for wisdom, which eventually breeds laziness. We might take shortcuts in the name of speed—only to find ourselves on morally shaky ground, compromising our ethics or even skirting the law. Worse still, in our fierce bid for independence, we risk shutting out the very people who wish us well, confusin...

  The "Best Campus" Trap: Why India Inc. Needs to Rethink Its Hiring Strategy For decades, the golden rule of corporate hiring in India has been simple: go to the top-tier institutes, host dazzling campus talks, conduct rigorous recruitment drives, and secure the "best" talent. For companies, associating with prestigious, highly ranked campuses is a badge of honor. For the students, being selected by a marquee organization is a moment of triumph. But what happens after the handshakes and the offer letters? The celebration often fades faster than orientation week does. The glossy reality gives way to a sobering truth: many of these bright young minds find themselves stuck in roles that fail to utilize their core competencies. They are assigned projects they never desired, working on problems that don't ignite their passion. Soon, the competent become the disgruntled. While they may stick around due to financial security or social pressure, their enthusiasm ...

  Leave Your Baggage, Live Your Present Neither deprive your family time worrying about workplace problems, nor deprive your workplace time worrying about family problems. Doing either is a gross injustice to both sides of your life. A worried mind loses focus, and when focus is lost, productivity is lost. Being productive in the family adds value to relationships, and being productive in the workplace does justice to your salary. Once you start depriving both sides, you make no sense to your family members nor to your colleagues. Though you know this fact, you still witness yourself trapped in such situations. Unless you realise the importance of playing your roles effectively, your productivity remains questionable. You have potential, but due to emotional baggage, your mind becomes full rather than mindful. Your actions don't just impact you; they also affect others and the environment, making both the family and the workplace stressful. The only way out is this: once you ...

  Stop Shaking the Wrong Tree You can’t stand under a mango tree and expect oranges. And what’s even more absurd? Blaming the tree for not giving you what it was never meant to bear. If you stay rooted in disappointment, you have two choices: adjust your expectations to match the tree, or find a tree that bears the fruit you actually want. But whatever you do, don’t linger beneath those branches, frustrated and resentful, cursing the mango tree for being exactly what it is. This metaphor reaches far beyond fruit. It’s a mirror held up to our careers, our relationships, and even the digital spaces we inhabit every day. At Work We often join a company with high hopes—sparked by promises made during interviews or the allure of a job description. But when reality doesn’t align with the pitch, sulking in the breakroom won’t change a thing. You can recalibrate your expectations or pivot to a new role elsewhere. Remember: an unhappy employee is rarely a productive one. And waitin...

  The Meeting of Mind, Might, and Meaning One day, Knowledge and Intelligence crossed paths—and as old companions often do, they fell into conversation. Knowledge sighed heavily. “No one respects me anymore,” he said. “People tell me I’m everywhere—no longer the treasure of the elite. The internet democratised me yesterday; today, AI is giving me away for free.” Intelligence nodded thoughtfully, then replied, “But tell me—what lives on a screen or between the covers of a book is merely a collection of words. It becomes knowledge only when someone reads, absorbs, and truly owns it. Until then, it’s just information.” He paused, then added with a sharper edge: “And even then—if they never apply what they’ve learned, they may be knowledgeable , but they are far from intelligent .” Knowledge perked up. “So, you’re saying I still hold power?” “ Applied knowledge holds power,” Intelligence corrected gently. “Otherwise, you’re like a fistful of cash that never buys a thing—o...