The person next to you

The person next to you

The person next to you will be ambitious, but his ambition will differ from yours.

The person next to you will be worried, but his reason for worry will differ from yours.

The person next to you will be fearful, but his reason for fear will differ from yours.

The person next to you will be happy, but his reason for happiness will differ from yours.

The person next to you will be dejected, but his reasons for dejection will differ from yours.

The person next to you will be motivated, but his motivation will differ from yours.

The person next to you will be hurt, but his reasons for being hurt will differ from yours.

The person next to you will be silent, but the reason for his silence will differ from yours.

The person next to you will be angry, but his reason for anger will differ from yours.

Everyone has the same emotions, but the reason behind the emotion can differ. The essence of a relationship is understanding the reason and accepting the difference.

Let us remember this reality, we are either a pot of ashes or a set of skeletons; the rest is the gap between our birth and death. Let us live in harmony and leave peacefully.

M.L. Narendra Kumar

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