Attitude -The Oars in our hand

Attitude -The Oars in our hand

The word waiting breeds many words like:

· Irritation

· Restlessness

· Insult

· Opportunity

· Indiscipline

· Waste of time and many more.

Since you associated the word waiting with negative words and hence, your attitude towards waiting has become negative.

Now associate waiting with positive words.

· Exciting

· It is worth waiting

· Another person has a challenge

· An opportunity to prepare

· I can use this time productively

Once you associate waiting with positive words, your reaction changed. In life, when you change the meaning of what is happening around you, you can change your life too.

Remember, life is uncertain, short, unpredictable and a mystery.

We cannot control the course of the river, but we do have the oars-called attitude in our hands.

M.L. Narendra Kumar

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