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Sometimes we would have been made to wait for a long time, in those situations there would have been a battle between our ego and empathy in us.



The ego in us would have reduced our patience and increased our anger, in such situations we would have felt it is worthless to continue meeting that person.



Instead, if we would have activated the Empathy in us our patience would have increased and would have resulted in understanding the other person. 



In life we do have many situations to bring the goodness in us, provided we learn how to respond rather to react.



Ask for yourself "what did you do when you were made to wait?"



Remember, the situations can be the same for two people but how do they respond, determines their peace within.



Waiting is an opportunity to understand self and others.



Note: You do have a choice to walk out assertively without hurting self and others



M.L.Narendra Kumar






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  1. Good evening Naren san. Such a nice training program. Motivated us a lot. Will be following your blogs.

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