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Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1479 Stop it-3-Advising

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1479 Stop it-3-Advising Stop advising when retaliation is taking over listening. When listening ceases, there is no use for words in such a situation. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1478 Stop it-2-Discussion

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1478 Stop it-2-Discussion Stop your discussion; when you realise an unwanted argument is taking over the debate. A debate has a logical end, but whereas an unwanted argument neither leads to a new beginning nor it has an end. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1477 Stop it- 1-Spending

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1477 Stop it- 1-Spending Stop spending when you realise your wants are taking over your needs. Peace takes the front seat when the "wants" take the back seat. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1476 Words

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1476 Words Words that you on yourself and others can either build or demolish yourself and others. In dealing with self and others, be a builder, not a demolisher M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1475 Betterment

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1475 Betterment When you work for your betterment today, you are invariably working for changing your tomorrow.    It is better to work towards betterment rather than discussing yesterday's bitter experience. Betterment happens when we move out of our comfort zone. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1474 Mistakes and Feedback

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1474 Mistakes and Feedback A mistake is proof that someone is doing their work and, feedback is proof that someone is noticing the work.   It is better to be on the working side or on the side of giving feedback, rather than being a mute spectator or a critic. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1473 - Selfie Vs Introspection

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1473 Selfie Vs Introspection . A selfie can help you to correct your makeup, whereas introspection will help you to develop your character. You have a choice to either switch on the camera or to find out a calm place to invest time in yourself.  M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1472 Social Media

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1472 Social Media There is a life beyond social media where you need not wear attractive attire and put a plastic smile on your face. That is called real life, where there are no trials or reels.  M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in    

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1471 -Social Media Posting

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1471 Social Media Posting You can either become popular or unpopular amongst the people based on the issues you discuss on social media. Watch your postings and replies if you don't want to get into controversies M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1470 Nature’s Nature

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1470 Nature’s Nature Nature is like a teacher; sometimes it is lenient, sometimes it is strict. The leniency or the strictness is based on which the student behaves. Let us remember one thing, nature is an eternal teacher and let us be disciplined students forever. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1469- Focus

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1469 Focus If you are focused on your achievement, other things are trivial around you. The trivial activities drain and, achievers don't drain their time and energy on it. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in    

The friend and the enemy inside you

  The friend and the enemy inside you   The friend holds you from being impulsive, whereas the enemy forces you to swipe your cards. The friend tells you to forgive, whereas the enemy forces you to take revenge. The friend tells you to focus on health, whereas the enemy forces you towards buffets. The friend tells you to wake up, whereas the enemy forces you to snooze your alarm. The friend tells you to stand for your rights, whereas the enemy forces you to stay away from such acts. The friend tells you to channelise your anger, whereas the enemy forces you to use the weapon. The friend tells you to save and invest, whereas the enemy forces you to spend and borrow. The friend tells you to introspect, whereas the enemy forces you to gossip about others. The friend tells you to change with time, whereas the enemy forces you to resist the change. Sometimes, the friend might look like an enemy and vice-versa, If we can recognise who is the friend and the enem...

Life Lessons from Boating

  Life Lessons from Boating Life is like rowing a boat; we require the following two oars to row it: We require hard work on one hand and goals on the other hand to progress. We require Strategy on one hand and tactics, on the other hand, to stay ahead of the competition. We require well-wishers on the one hand and critics on the other hand to correct ourselves. We require firmness on one hand and flexibility, on the other hand, to stay balanced. We require success on the one hand and failure on the other hand to appreciate the value of life. We require friends on the one hand and haters on the other hand to appreciate the value of a relationship. We require pleasant weather on the one hand and unpleasant weather on the other hand to appreciate the value of nature. We require problems on the one hand and creativity on the other hand to assess our ability to face challenges. We require motivation from within on one hand and inspiration from others, on the other h...

There is more

  There is more   There is more exaggeration than truth.   There are more arguments than debates.   There is more hate than love.   There are more conflicts than peace.   There are more Loans than happiness.   There is more recklessness than common sense.   There is more criticism than feedback.   There are more forwards than verified news.   There are more doubts than trust.   What needs to be less has increased and, what needs to be more has decreased.   It is better to correct ourselves before we are corrected by others.   M.L. Narendra Kumar          

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1468 Revenge Vs Peace

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1468 Revenge Vs Peace If you focus on revenge, you can never experience the peace within, whereas when you shift your focus from revenge to forgiveness, you will channelise your energy towards peace. Either being revengeful or peaceful is a choice M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in    

Judging Vs Understanding

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1467 Judging Vs Understanding If you focus on judging people, you can never see what is right in them, whereas if you focus on understanding people, you will understand, nobody is perfect. When you shift your focus from judging to understanding, you will start relating with people. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in              

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1466 Reasons Vs Results

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1466 Reasons Vs Results If you keep generating reasons, you can never produce results. If you start working towards results; reasons will never be part of your vocabulary. Reasons will give you momentary happiness but, results will result in long-term peace. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in                      

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1465 Noise vs Inside Voice

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1465 Noise vs Inside Voice If you focus on the noise around you, you can never listen to the voice inside you. If you keep listening to the voice inside you, the noise will never be audible to you.  Shift your focus to change your results M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in  

Travel- Life Lessons on the go - Proactivity in the sky

  Travel- Life Lessons on the go Proactivity in the sky There are many kinds of travellers, but every traveller will have a lesson to share. For the past two years, travel has reduced due to pandemic situations and, vacation was only a dream. However, the memories of the past always live with us. I was recollecting an incident that happened in 2015 while I was travelling with my family to Hongkong from Malaysia. After a tiring midnight Journey from Chennai to Malaysia, I was longing to continue my nap on the flight to Hongkong. The flight took off with regular announcement and, after a few minutes, inflight service started. Generally, they serve water bottles and a cool towel but, we received a pouch with a few toffees, A printed card with a brief note on Autism on one side and an Introduction to a girl child with Autism who was travelling on the same flight. The card had a message which stated, "I am______ your fellow Passenger who has different abilities, but you might...

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1464 Forgiveness

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1464 Forgiveness Our willingness to forgive others helps us to develop our ability to seek forgiveness. Growth happens where willingness and ability meet. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in    

Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1463 Questions-Outcome of Curiosity

  Less than a Minute Life Lessons-1463 Questions-Outcome of Curiosity Questions are the outcome of curiosity; by encouraging the children to ask questions, we are helping them to either invent or innovate.  Our inability to answer their questions should not stifle their ability to think. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in    

Journey of Life

  Journey of Life A youngster started his journey towards exploring life: While the youngster was moving forward, an elderly person said, "this route will not take you to your destination, it will lead you to a dead-end" the youngster did not take him seriously and, he started walking & finally, he landed on the dead-end." A voice said, "it is your ego that has brought you to this dead-end when your ability to learn from others ceases, your ego becomes your master, you turn to be its slave." The youngster changed his path and started walking in the other direction.  He found some of his fellow travellers doing better than him and said to himself, "People with less intelligence and education are lucky" the voice said, "Your envy does not help you in focusing on your growth, whereas it is burning you with jealousy. The youngster was very hungry and couldn't find a hotel and said, "this place is sick, there is nothing to eat...