Caring Vs Pampering
In the past,
acquiring a cherished toy or a favourite comic book was no easy feat. It
required effort on our part, whether that involved completing homework or
assisting with household chores. These were the days when income was limited,
yet the joy derived from simple pleasures was abundant. Whether it was a toy or
a book, we treasured it significantly because the anticipation and longing for
it enhanced its value.
Fast forward to
today, and we find ourselves in a world where everything is accessible at the
tap of a screen—prompt doorstep deliveries, instant gratification in fast food,
and swift downloads. Undeniably, income levels have risen, and parents are more
inclined to provide children with the items they desire. While this parental
love is commendable, it also has its drawbacks. Children fail to grasp the true
worth of what they receive and develop a penchant for instant gratification.
This inclination can pose significant challenges in the future. As these
children grow, their capacity for patience decreases, and the necessity of
working towards their desires diminishes. Consequently, they may experience
stress and disappointment if their wishes are unfulfilled.
It's vital to
discern between caring and pampering. Caring entails nurturing a resilient
character equipped to confront the world's adversities, while pampering
cultivates a fragile mindset that bodes ill for the child's future.
Recognising the
appropriate balance between caring and being strict is essential. By doing so,
children can learn to appreciate what they receive and comprehend the
importance of patience rather than succumbing to instant gratification, ultimately
leading to disillusionment.
M.L. Narendra Kumar
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