If we can’t walk in other shoes, it is better not to judge them.

If we can’t walk in other shoes, it is better not to judge them.

To truly understand others, we must be willing to step into their shoes and experience life from their perspective. This means considering their circumstances and empathising with their feelings, struggles, and aspirations. However, since it's impossible to inhabit someone else's experiences fully, we should refrain from passing judgment on them without first understanding their unique backgrounds and challenges.

Everyone has a story shaped by different cultures, experiences, and emotional hurdles. Rather than making snap judgments based on our limited viewpoints, we should strive to ask questions, listen actively, and approach others with compassion. We can foster deeper connections and cultivate a more empathetic society.

M.L. Narendra Kumar

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