Relationship Building is Sailing

Relationship Building is Sailing

A good sailor not only prepares his sail, but he is also mentally prepared to face the changing weather while he sails. Similarly, in life, a mature person prepares to build a relationship and, he also mentally prepares to handle the changing behaviour of the person.

Changing weather is not in the hands of the sailor; however, the ability to navigate during the rough sail is, similarly other person's behaviour is not in our hands, but the attitude towards handling self and others is there in our hands.

Relationship building is like sailing; expect the unexpected & keep building your interpersonal skills to stabilize your sail.

M.L. Narendra Kumar

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