From Worry to Wisdom: Mastering Your Mind in a VUCA World
How many times have you heard someone say, “I’m worried about my
son’s career,” “My future feels uncertain,” or “What about inflation,
automation, and jobs?” Be honest—you’ve probably made similar statements
yourself now and then. Let’s pause for a moment and ask: Why do we worry?
At its core, worry stems from fear of the future, the unknown,
or simply being clueless about what’s troubling us. So, is there any benefit to
worrying? The answer: zero benefits, 100% distress. Yet, despite knowing this,
we still worry. Why? Because it’s how we’re wired. The human brain has been
programmed to worry since caveman days when survival was the top priority.
Fast-forward to today, and not much has changed—except the stakes. We now live
in a VUCA world: Volatile, Uncertain, Complex, and Ambiguous.
But here’s the good news: we can train ourselves to move from
worrying to working on what worries us. A powerful way to start is by
understanding three simple circles, popularized by Dr. Stephen R. Covey in
his classic The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (with
later refinements by other experts on the circle of influence). These circles
help us handle worry with far more clarity.
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Circle of Concern: Things we care about but cannot control. Example:
inflation, new technology, or a global crisis.
·
Circle of Influence: Things we can affect through our actions or communication.
Example: you can’t fix traffic, but you can influence colleagues to carpool,
reducing congestion and your stress about being late.
·
Circle of Control: Things we have direct power over. Example: you can tackle
inflation by tracking expenses and cutting unnecessary costs, or handle
technological change by upgrading your skills.
We always have a choice: worry endlessly, or find solutions.
Remember, you are the master of your brain. Feed it worries, and it will send
back fear and distress. Feed it questions like “How can I overcome this?” and
it will generate ideas, creativity, and solutions. Don’t waste your time—or
your brain—on negativity. Time and brainpower are your most precious resources. Use
every second to think optimistically and creatively.
Decades ago, Dale Carnegie wrote a timeless book: How
to Stop Worrying and Start Living. Take a cue from those words.
Life is meant to be lived, not worried away. Birds don’t learn how to fly; fish
don’t learn how to swim—it’s part of who they are. For humans, living fully
should be our default, not worrying. Choose action over anxiety. Your future
self will thank you.
M.L. Narendra Kumar
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