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The Blame Game

 The Blame Game

In the game of blaming, the blamer might appear to be winning at first, but eventually, they realise they are the true losers. By the time they come to this realization, they will no longer be in the game to participate again. When we engage in blame, we stop focusing on personal improvement. Blaming acts as a shield that prevents people from learning, changing, and growing.

To break free from the blame game, we should ask ourselves what we gained from blaming others in the past. The obvious answer may be a momentary sense of relief, but it doesn't provide us with any sense of responsibility.

Those who play the blame game may feel a rush of excitement from believing they are not at fault, but ultimately, they will find themselves isolated and without anyone to blame.

Next time you find yourself in a situation where you might be tempted to blame someone, take a moment to hold back and shift from being a blamer to becoming a leader. A leader who experiences a loss is still respected. In contrast, a person who plays the blame game may hold the title of a leader on their business card, but they will never truly be seen as a leader in the hearts of others.

Only the cowardly blame others to hide their mistakes and shortcomings, while a true leader dares to acknowledge their errors. Once they accept their mistakes, they become willing to learn and improve.

M.L. Narendra Kumar

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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