The Unexamined Life: From Ancient Wisdom to Modern Necessity
"An unexamined life is not worth living."
"Know thyself." From ancient days to the age of AI, such quotations
have been used to emphasise the critical importance of self-understanding.
Today, we have various psychometric tools to
understand our personality, attitude, and abilities. These tools provide
valuable insights to help us change, lead, and grow. Unfortunately, they are
often used only when a person can attend a behavioural training program. Very
few take the initiative to use them proactively in their personal lives.
But why has this emphasis on self-knowledge
persisted throughout history? In ancient times, kings were mentored to
understand their strengths and weaknesses. This was crucial to leverage their
strengths effectively and overcome their weaknesses to avoid defeat on the
battlefield.
Alexander the Great had Aristotle as his mentor,
whose guidance was instrumental in his rise to greatness. Similarly, kings
across the world had teachers or mentors to help them look inward. This inward
journey is not only an adventure; it is also an opportunity to recognise one's
own mistakes.
There is a powerful reason for writing this
article: knowing oneself also paves the way for empathising with others. Once a
person travels inward, they connect with their own pain. By understanding their
own pain, they can begin to see others' pain.
When a person realises their own mistakes, they
become more tolerant of others' mistakes and can wholeheartedly agree that to
err is human. Having been forgiven for their own failings, they develop the
capacity to forgive others, thus completing the famous quote: "To err is
human; to forgive, divine."
Understanding the self is not just an opportunity
to connect with oneself; it is also an opportunity to connect and relate to
others.
To sum up, some of the key benefits of
self-understanding include the ability to understand others, accept their
mistakes, forgive, and empathise. These are not just ordinary qualities; they
are the finest human qualities. They can prevent global wars, strengthen family
bonds, and foster harmony in the workplace.
As Lao Tzu wrote in the Tao Te Ching: "Knowing
others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is
strength; mastering yourself is true power."
To be wise, you need to understand yourself. To gain inner power, you need to master yourself.
Don't wait for an opportunity or free time to begin
this journey. Make it a habit to interact with yourself, so you can interact
with others more effectively.
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