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From Instinct to Insight: Choosing Your Response

 From Instinct to Insight: Choosing Your Response

Being defensive and reactive is part of human nature, a trait that dates to our evolutionary origins. Here’s a basic understanding of how our brain has evolved:

Reptilian Brain: The oldest and most primitive part of the brain, associated with basic survival functions. 

Nature: It is rigid, compulsive, and automatic, acting without conscious thought.

Mammalian Brain: The middle layer, which evolved with early mammals, primarily deals with emotions, motivation, and memory. 

Nature: This brain serves as the seat of our value judgments and exists in the "here and now," responding to rewards and punishments.

Neomammalian Brain: The newest and most complex part of the brain, most developed in higher mammals, especially humans. 

Nature: It is flexible, adaptable, and possesses almost infinite learning capabilities. It operates with a sense of the past, present, and future.

The interaction between these three conceptual "brains" shapes how we respond to the world, often resulting in conflict between primal instinct (Reptilian), emotion (Mammalian), and logic (Neomammalian).

To apply this understanding to our defensive and reactive tendencies, we must recognise that external stimuli often trigger us. However, how we respond is a choice, as Dr. Viktor Frankl pointed out. When we react impulsively, we are being controlled by the Reptilian brain. If we become judgmental towards others, we are influenced by the Mammalian brain. The best responses typically arise from the Neomammalian brain, which can understand, reason, relate past consequences, and draw lessons from various sources. This allows us to respond to stimuli without harming ourselves or others.

In a world abundant with information—from theories, research papers, and infographics to videos, talks, and podcasts—we still observe people reacting impulsively, leading to violence, suicide, and abusive comments on social media. It’s crucial to reflect on the types of content we consume, as they activate our Reptilian, Mammalian, and Neomammalian brains. Unless we critically evaluate this content, we risk remaining governed by our primal instincts, resulting in a lack of inner peace and an inharmonious society.

So, is there a way to ensure we operate from the Neomammalian brain? The answer is yes:

1. Be mindful of what enters your mind.

2. Take a minute before you react.

Unless we practice these qualities, the world will continue to see “reptiles” in suits and cars, while the true reptiles mock humans.

M.L. Narendra Kumar

 

 

 

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