The Painter and the Spectator

The Painter and the Spectator

What the world paints about you is their perception; if they paint you to be wise, be nice to them; if they paint you to be harsh, be kind to them. There is no point in reacting to how others paint a picture of you; it is their brush and their opinion, not yours. When you learn the art of ignoring, you will also learn the art of growing.

If you keep correcting others and proving yourself right, your precious life is spent on activities that add value to your life. You are the painter of your life, and you are a mute spectator of what others paint about you.

M.L. Narendra Kumar

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