Less than a minute, Lesson-3184 Easy to advise

Less than a minute, Lesson-3184

Easy to advise

It is easy to give advice to someone who has failed—telling them what they could have done or should have avoided. But it is not easy to endure the failure that the other person has gone through.

Without facing the challenges on the ground ourselves, we can only comment on how the game should be played. Only when we have experienced a similar situation can we truly understand the person who has failed. It is easy to create a case study, but difficult to be the case itself.

M.L. Narendra Kumar

Director

Instivate Learning Solutions Pvt. Ltd

Comments

Less than a Minute Life Lesson-2410 Promotion and Character

Less than a Minute Life Lesson-2410 Promotion and Character Promotion is a form of recognition for your competency and character. However, the people below you will relate to you more for your character than your competency. M.L. Narendra Kumar Director Instivate Learning Solutions PVT LTD www.instivatelearning.in

Listen, Understand and Respond

Listen, Understand and Respond Most of the time, people listen to respond rather than to understand. By the time the other person finishes speaking, the listener is often already formulating a response. Let’s explore what happens in such situations. While listening, we may be trying to engage our logical brain to recall our memories and creativity for a response, or we may be accessing our emotional brain to defend ourselves against what is being said. For example, if one person talks about ways another could improve, the listener might offer excuses such as a lack of time, resources, or support. Alternatively, they may bring up personal emotions, like health or family issues. These reactions often occur while the other person is still speaking, leading to a decreased understanding and an increased eagerness to defend one’s position. During this type of conversation, the listener may appear restless, exhibiting a lack of eye contact or head nodding. In such interactions, th...

onlymotivators

Search This Blog