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Aspiring to be a Good Human Being

An elderly person asked a young boy "What do you want to become, when you grow up"

The young boy replied " I will be a good human being" The elderly person said " I know you will be a good human being, but I want to know what career would you like to choose?" 

The young boy replied "I am not sure what I will become but I have decided to be a good human being and an adaptable person" 

The elderly person smiled and young boy said " I might become a doctor, but what is the use of being doctor without being a good human being" 

I might become an engineer, but what is the use of being an unadaptable engineer in this constantly changing world 

If I focus on becoming a good human being, I can understand myself better and with that understanding I can identify my career interest.

The elderly person was deeply listening to the young boy and asked "Who taught you to talk like this?" 

The young boy said " I was taught to think not to talk"

Children are capable of deciding what they want, all they need is freedom to be what they are. 

Children become stronger when there is value driven and inspiring adults around them.

Instead of showing them the destination, clear their path, which is blocked with your expectations, comparison, doctrines and dogmas. 


M.L. Narendra Kumar


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