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What Matters

It is not the number of mobiles in which our names are stored that matters, it is the number of hearts in which we live that matters 

It is not the number of people whom we know that matters, it is the number of People who knows us fully that matters

It is not the number of people who laugh with us that matters, it is the number of the people who would like to wipe our tears that matters

It is not the number of people who were there to celebrate our success that matters, it is the number of people who stood next to us when we failed that matters 

It is not the number of people who met you, when you were at the peak that matters, it is the number of people who keep meeting you when you are down that matters

It is not the number of people who would like to invest when you are soaring that matters, it is the number of people who would like to invest when you are struggling that matters

It is not the number of people who would like to join you when you are happy that matters, it is the number of people who contribute to your happiness that matters

It is not the number of people who came to your wedding that matters, it is the number of people who would like to keep your married life intact that matters 

It is not the number of people who ran with you when you were healthy that matters, it is the number of people who would like to hold your hands when you are unable to walk that matters 

Who you are, depends upon what you are…

M.L. Narendra Kumar


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