Regret and Self-Forgiveness
When regret occupies
the mind, the path forward can seem bleak. Many of us experience regret in
life, each for different reasons. However, if we use the present to dwell on
our past decisions, we become sidetracked from moving toward the future. The
key to overcoming regret and making progress is self-forgiveness.
What is
Self-Forgiveness?
At its core,
self-forgiveness is the deliberate and voluntary process of releasing feelings
of anger, guilt, shame, and resentment toward oneself for perceived mistakes,
failures, or wrongdoings. It is an act of self-compassion in which you
acknowledge your errors, understand the context of your actions, learn from the
experience, and ultimately choose to move forward without being permanently
defined or paralyzed by your past.
You have the choice
to either remain stuck in your current state, deepening your misery with
regret, or invest some time in self-forgiveness and allow yourself to move
forward. It doesn’t matter how much time lies ahead; what truly matters is how
you choose to use your time in the present.
Sometimes, it’s
essential to show kindness and compassion toward yourself to relieve stress and
bring a smile to your face.
M.L. Narendra Kumar
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