Interaction
with Failures
Part-9
Mr.
Anger: What makes you angry?
John:
Criticism,
others anger and not delivering results
Mr.
Anger: Let’s go one by one, have you criticised others
John:
Yes
Mr.
Anger: Why did you do that, when you don’t like to be
criticised?
John:
It
is because of the mistakes they commit
Mr.
Anger: Are you supposed to give feedback or are you
supposed to criticise
John:
I
am confused whether I gave a feedback or did I criticise
Mr.
Anger: we might think we are giving feedback but they can
feel they are criticised
John:
So,
you mean to tell that I was given feedback but I perceived it as criticism
Mr.
Anger: May be, tell me who are the people who criticised
you?
John:
My
partner, my wife and few others
Mr.
Anger: How
is the relationship with them?
John:
My
partner has left the business, me and my wife are not in good terms
Mr.
Anger: Have they appreciated you?
Mr.
John: Yes, they have done it
Mr.
Anger: Have they helped you?
John:
Yes,
many times
Mr.
Anger: Mr. John, in every relationship there are both good
and bad interactions. If you show your anger for being criticised or for
finding fault, tomorrow you will not have people around you to neither appreciate
you nor correct you.
Remember
if you see criticism as an opportunity you will introspect
John:
I
do understand, but during that situation, I just lose my control
Mr.
Anger: It is natural to lose your control, but it is human
not to forget the other person who has been good to you.
When you think about their goodness for few seconds
your attitude towards criticism changes and your emotions are in control.
John:
Now
I realise, A long standing relationship breaks with quick emotions
Mr.
Anger: You are right Mr. John, remember people who care are the people
who find fault
John thinks deeply on what Mr. Anger said and asks
how do I come out of anger?
Mr.
Anger: Anger
is an emotion which is a part of our life. You cannot eradicate anger but
remember this quote
John:
Aristotle,
tells it is not easy, then how can I handle my anger?
Mr.
Anger: Aristotle never told it is not possible. John, when
you started your business, did you think it was impossible to build a 100-crore
empire?
John:
Though
100 crores was not there in the mind when we started but we were confident that
we will grow
Mr.
Anger: With confidence we build business,
with the same confidence we can build our character
If you want to get rid of your anger, you need to
get rid of hate and guilt. John, call your partner and speak to him after that
call your wife and speak to her.
John hesitates but takes his mobile and goes out.
After sometime he comes inside and Mr. Anger enquires about the call
John pours some water in the glass
Part-10-Follows
M.L.Narendra
Kumar
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