Craft your words
It's not just the
words that can hurt a person; it's also the paralanguage used while
communicating. Pay attention to your emotions during difficult conversations.
It’s easy to lose your temper, but it can be challenging to reconnect with
someone whose words you have hurt. Most major conflicts begin with
communication issues and can ultimately lead to a relationship breakdown.
Even if you seek
forgiveness, the hurt person will likely remember the incident long after the
moment has passed. While physical wounds may heal, emotional scars tend to
linger. Therefore, when engaging in difficult conversations, be mindful of your
words.
Think of
communication like a sculptor carefully chiselling away at stone. One wrong
move can damage the entire statue, just as careless words can negatively impact
a relationship. Choose your words thoughtfully, craft them with care, and aim
to communicate to preserve the relationship. You can better manage your
emotions, maintain assertive language, and ensure your paralanguage remains
gentle.
M.L.Narendra Kumar
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