Life Lessons from Fishing
A young man asked a
monk, "What should I do to succeed?"
The monk replied,
"What is your definition of success?"
The young man
responded, "I should achieve my goals, be wealthy, and lead a happy
life."
The monk nodded and
said, "That sounds good. However, I am not going to answer your question
directly. Let's engage in a conversation to understand what it takes to succeed."
The monk asked,
"What do you need to catch a fish?"
The young man
immediately replied, "A fishing rod."
The monk returned to
the monastery with a fishing rod and said, "Now, catch the fish."
The young man looked
around and said, "There is no pond here."
"So, let’s go to
a pond," the monk suggested, and they went to a nearby pond.
Once there, the old
monk said, "Now, start fishing." The young man looked at the hook and
added, "But there is no bait."
The monk took a
bucket and provided some bait. The young man started fishing but grew restless
after a while, saying, "I don't think there are any fish in this
pond."
The monk replied,
"Okay, let's try another pond." They walked a mile to a different
pond. The young man began fishing but became impatient, as he hadn’t caught a
single fish. The monk then took the rod and started fishing. After a few
minutes, he caught a fish.
Curious, the young
man asked, "Master, what are you trying to teach me through this fishing
experience?"
The monk invited him
to sit under a tree and began explaining, "My dear young man, to catch a
fish, you need several things: a fishing rod, bait, a pond with fish, knowledge
on how to use the rod, skills to cast it, and above all, a lot of patience."
He continued,
"Now, let's relate this to success. You need the right tools to succeed in
life, such as goals, planning, and knowledge of where opportunities exist. You
must also know communication, interpersonal skills, and technical abilities in
your chosen field. Above all, you need patience and determination to achieve
your goals."
The young man
replied, "Thank you, that was a wonderful lesson. Now I understand why I
was struggling to succeed. Even though I have the knowledge and skills, I lack
patience. From now on, I will work on developing patience and will stop
expecting quick results."
The monk smiled and
said, "In a world focused on fast food, quick deliveries, and faster
downloads, people often expect everything to happen rapidly. Remember, it takes
time for a seed to sprout, a tree to grow, and fruits to ripen. We should draw
inspiration from nature and stop comparing life to quick commerce and
technology."
M.L. Narendra Kumar
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