Admiration, Liking and Respect

Admiration, Liking and Respect

We have a choice between being admired, liked, and respected. People admire us for our looks, skills, and knowledge. They like us when we are kind and considerate towards them. However, respect is earned through our character and selflessness.

Admiration can fade as our looks change, skills become outdated, and knowledge is surpassed. Dislike can arise when we disagree with others. In contrast, respect endures as long as our character remains intact.

It's essential to have a few elegant pieces in our wardrobe, continually update our skills and knowledge, and develop a tactful approach to handling differences with others. Ultimately, our character should always be guided by our values, ensuring that we remain admired, liked, and respected.

M.L. Narendra Kumar

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